Great dating profiles need personality & great conversation starters to be effective.
Before you start, take a few minutes to jot down a few things. Don’t overthink this step! This shouldn’t take more than a few minutes. Start by making a list of 3-5 things your friends would say about you. Then list 3-5 words you’d use to describe yourself. There are a variety of AI writing programs such as Chat GPT but one I really like to use is Perplexity.
Create a second list of your passions or goals as well as what you’d like to find in a partner. Do you want someone who is like-minded to share deep conversations? Or do you want someone who is fun loving and always up for an adventure?
PROMPT #1
This prompt will help you determine what kind of person you are hoping to find, what they like to do and where they like to spend their time.
You are an expert copywriter. I am a [insert your gender] looking for a relationship with a [insert gender you seek]. I’m a [insert your job or hobby that defines you] who is [insert several adjectives to describe yourself ]. I’m in my [30’s/40’s/50’s] and I have [insert # of children and how often they are with you] I need help creating an engaging profile on a dating site. Can you build out an entire bio of my ideal match for me? Can you tell me what they like to do and where they spend their time. Please list their top 10 hopes related to online dating and their top 10 challenges for finding their ideal match.
- NOTE: Remember AI won’t produce content that could enable or encourage objectification. While it’s perfectly find to be looking for a friend with benefits (and you should definitely be up-front about this sort of thing) it’s best to describe the relationship as something ‘short-term.’
PROMPT #2
This prompt will help your dating profile stand out by giving viewers a behind the scenes look at your world.
You are an expert copywriter. I am a [insert your gender] looking for a relationship with a [insert description of your ideal match from first prompt]. I am a [insert an adjective to describe your personality] with a [insert a goal or something you are passionate about]. I spend my time [include a pass time you enjoy], and [insert a detail about yourself from activities your enjoy to where you grew up or your favorite place in the city]. I need help coming up with a strong, sentence that helps them see I am their perfect match. Can you write 10 very clear, catchy sentences for me to choose from?
Remember, the key is to showcase your personality, interests, and what you’re looking for in a relationship. Being authentic and honest about what you seek will attract compatible matches and initiate meaningful conversations
Make sure to tweak these outputs in order to further personalize & cater them to your specific wants.